Now I’d like to take a few moments to address the special woman in your life. You can invite her over to the screen, print out the page and tuck it into her briefcase or bring it up in your next sexual conversation…
1. Allow yourself to let go. Don’t feel selfish or sluttish; distracted or unworthy. Don’t tame or subdue yourself. Don’t hold anything back!
2. Don’t feel afraid to get a little verbal. Quit biting your tongue or holding your breath. Let go and moan, groan or sigh if you want to. Don’t force it or get too theatrical, but the man in your life will love to hear the sounds of your pleasure escaping your lips.
3. If you find yourself constantly stressing over hygiene issues like scent or taste or cleanliness, try incorporating a bath or shower early on in your schedule to prepare and improve your comfort level. Even better if you can invite him to join you!
4. Strive to gain greater comfort with your body and what turns you on. Take initiative to learn what really drives you insane with desire and then learn to communicate those hot buttons to the man in your bed. What do you fantasize about? What really turns you on?
5. Learn to believe your lover when he tells you he loves to pleasure you and make you cum — he means it! And he’s also telling you the truth when he swears up and down that he loves to eat your pussy! There are few things in this world that will give a man a sense of accomplishment or satisfaction than making the woman he cares about cum…
Oxytocin is one of many chemicals that play a significant role in orgasm and sexual response. It’s a hormone that is secreted by the pituitary gland and cases muscle contractions and sensitizes the nerves. While oxytocin plays a part in our orgasms too, it’s believed that it’s even more important in a woman’s sexual pleasure.
Not only does this hormone play a large part in the contractions that wrack a woman’s womb and vaginal walls when she cums, research has shown that increased oxytocin production in a woman contributes to more powerful, intense orgasms.
Oxytocin also plays an important part of a woman’s emotional state and stimulates emotional pleasure and feelings of intimacy. It’s often referred to as the “cuddling hormone” because it’s this chemical that initiates feelings of connection, bonding and intimacy with your lover.
Stronger orgasms and emotional fulfillment — it’s no surprise why this chemical hormone is so vital to a woman’s healthy sexual response!
In later chapters you’ll discover exactly how to release this chemical to make her feel more connected to you, and want to have sex with you more often.
I’m providing you with quite a bit of information. It’s all well and good if you can read and remember the techniques and concepts, but if you don’t apply them, you might as well not have wasted your time or money on this book.
Make a solid commitment to not only read this book, but to put the principles I share with you into practice in your every day sex life.
Team up with your lover and let her know what you’re reading up on. Ask her to work with you and convince her to agree to offer you honest feedback on the new things you’ll be trying out.
Believe me — she’ll thank you for it later!
In this chapter you’ll learn:
• Female sexual body parts that are crucial to sexual pleasure, and where to find them
• Other body parts vital to arousal
The female sexual organs comprise one of the most intricate and sensitive nerve networks in the universe, and it’s yours for the discovering. In this chapter, we’re going to get up close and personal with the ins and outs of the female sexual anatomy and response.
I’ll break it down two different ways: namely, the external anatomy (vulva) and the internal anatomy (vagina). We’ll begin with the external structures, since it’s here that we’ll find that amazingly sensitive clitoris. The key to, arguably, just about every single orgasm any woman has.
The clitoris is a small, highly sensitive organ that is very important to female sexual response. You can almost think of it as a “mini-penis”.
There are 2 main parts to the clitoris (externally):
1. The shaft
2. The glans (or the clitoral head)
The glans is visible, sticking out like a small lump. The shaft disappears into the body beneath the clitoral hood, which is a layer of tissue that passes around the clitoris.
The clitoris varies in size for different women, much like penis size vary in men.
Women have been blessed with a sex organ with no reproductive purpose — it’s only function is receiving pleasure. It has over 8,000 nerve endings which are intricately networked with the nerves throughout the pelvic region.
