Female orgasms are easy to fake to someone who doesn’t know what to look for. We’ve seen women faking orgasms in porno films, and we might have experienced a woman faking an orgasm ourselves!
Is She Too Vocal?
Typically, the women who fake orgasm tend to be very vocal (obviously borrowed from the climatic scenes of adult movies). If she’s screaming, moaning, in a tone where it doesn’t sound like her voice is shaking…or…if she’s saying things that sound “clear” (for example: “Oh My God!” vs. “Oo-h-oohh m-m-m-y-y-…oo…g-g-g..od..!”), then that’s a sign she’s faking.
Contractions and Other Physical Signs
During orgasms, a woman vagina and anus will contract. During a real orgasm, the vagina will contract strongly at about 1 contraction every 0.8 seconds. A woman can mimic a strong vaginal contraction, but to do it at that pace is very difficult.
Other signs she’s faking:
• She doesn’t have the “Sex Flush” (reddish skin)
• Her anus isn’t contracting
• Pupil size hasn’t dilated
The chances of her faking the full body spasms, vaginal contractions, shaking voice, reddish sex flush, along with the sweating, vaginal lubrication and other physical indicators are slim to none.
Multiple orgasms can be a difficult topic to handle because so many women think that they’re incapable of having them.
The truth is that all women have the inherent biological capacity to achieve them. It’s just that not all of them have the experience or recognize the natural potential.
Once your partner has her first orgasm, that should make it easier (and more intimate) for her to maintain and escalate her arousal by transitioning into a cool-down bonding time of cuddling and kissing, before moving into g-spot stimulating intercourse or continued manual stimulation.
That said there are some pretty good selling points regarding multiple orgasms. First off, it’s actually easier for your lover to experience her second (or third or fourth) orgasm because her engines are already primed.
She’s relaxed, aroused, sexually sensitive and responsive.
As I’ve already mentioned, most women are naturally (and quite often obliviously) multiple orgasmic. If she can cum once, she can almost positively do it again (some women can have as many as 50 consecutive orgasms!)
Right after the orgasm, her clitoris will be very sensitive, so you want to allot a few moments of a “break” before stimulating her again. Additionally, keeping things slow can help you cool off a bit and help you to last longer and regain some of your strength and stamina.
At this point, move into cuddling and kissing, where the both of you can take a break from the action…but…keep the palm of your hands covering her entire genital area. As you’re kissing, you can start to rub her vulva slowly with the palm of your hands.
If she pushes you away, then, it’s too soon to move back in.
However, is she moans, presses her genitals against your palms, or any other sign that what you’re doing is making her feel good, then you know you can move back to stimulating her again.
Sometimes when a woman has an orgasm, she may actually ejaculate. This is especially true for orgasms as a result of G-spot stimulation.
This happens because of the Para-Urethral Glands, which is a female version of a man’s prostrate gland. The fluid the para-urethral glands produce is similar to that produced by the male prostate and, as in the male, passes into the urethra — and in some cases may pass into the vagina. The glands fill with fluid during sexual arousal and may be felt through the vaginal wall.
