However, this doesn’t mean that you always have use exactly what’s listed. As long as you accomplish the overall goal for each section, you should be fine. For example, you want to make sure she’s physically relaxed before any heavy sexual contact. I’ve outlined a basic massage sequence, but you use other massaging techniques in place of what I’ve written down. As long as she’s physically relaxed, you’re good to go.
The main things that are different in the beginner, intermediate and advance routines are the sexual techniques you’ll use.
You can find all the techniques in the Oral Sex Secrets, Advance Fingering Techniques, and Best Sex Positions special reports.
Lastly, I want you to use these routines as a model to creating your own custom routines. You can “plug-and-play” different techniques and different positions into each section, creating a different experience for yourself and your partner every time you make love. But just make sure that you stick to the overall “strategy”, and only change around the techniques.
It’s a bit like making up an exercise routine, where you’ll have a 1) warm up, 2) main workout, and 3) cool down. You can always warm up on an exercise bike to get the heart rate up and the blood flowing through your muscles and you can cool down by taking a brisk walk. But the main workout can always be different, composed of different exercises, weight, reps, and sets. What you do IN your workout is different, but you’ll always have the warm up, main workout, and cool down “strategy”.
Now, let’s get into the routines!
Eye contact
Atmosphere
□ Lighting
□ Music
□ Scents
Stage I: Excitement
Step I: Massage
A. Shower/Bath
A1. Relaxation Massage
□ Sitting Upright:
• Scalp
• Ear lobes
□ On Her Stomach
• Neck and shoulders
• Back
• Ass Tease
• Foot
• Back of the legs
• Buttocks
□ On her back
• Top of the chest
• Brest
• Belly
• Glide your hands down, and back up so your hands rest on either side of her labia
A2. Erotic Massage
Step II: Labial Massage
□ Massage labia
□ Massage mons pubis
Stage II: Plateau and Orgasm
B. Orgasm 1: Oral
First Contact
□ Kisses around her labia
□ Long lick
Establishing Rhythm
□ Lick-Rest Cycle
□ 5 Half-way Licks, 1 Full Lick Cycle
□ Random Half-way and Full Licks
□ Secret Twitch
C. Orgasm 2: G-spot Fingering
□ In-Out Stroke
□ Circles
□ Come Hither
□ Tapping
D. Orgasm 3: Blended Orgasm
□ Lick-Rest Cycle
□ Secret Twitch to find “hot spot” with your tongue
□ In-Out Stroke (keep stimulating clitoris with your tongue)
□ Circles (keep stimulating clitoris with your tongue)
□ Come Hither (keep stimulating clitoris with your tongue)
□ Tapping (keep stimulating clitoris with your tongue)
E. (Her turn to please you, and/or Sex)
□ Spend minimum of 15 minutes cuddling, talking, and “being” with her (so that it reinforces the positive sexual experience she just had, increasing her desire for you and sex).
Eye contact
Atmosphere
□ Lighting
□ Music
□ Scents
Stage I: Excitement
Step I: Massage
A. Shower/Bath
A1. Relaxation Massage
□ Sitting Upright
• Scalp
• Ear lobes
□ On Her Stomach
• Neck and shoulders
• Back
• Ass Tease
• Foot
• Back of the legs
• Buttocks
□ On her back
• Top of the chest
• Brest
• Belly
• Glide your hands down, and back up so your hands rest on either side of her labia
A2. Erotic Massage
Step II: Labial Massage
□ Massage labia
□ Massage mons pubis
Stage II: Plateau and Orgasm
B. Orgasm 1: Oral
First Contact
□ Kisses around her labia
□ Long lick
□ Cool Breath
Establishing Rhythm
□ Lick-Rest Cycle
□ 5 Half-way Licks, 1 Full Lick Cycle
□ Clitoral Circles (around the clitoris)
□ Clitoral Circles (on the clitoris)
□ Tongue Grind
□ Secret Twitch
C. Orgasm 2: G-spot Fingering
□ Have her get in the Doggy Style Position
□ In-Out Stroke
□ Circles (Clockwise X, Counter Clockwise)
□ 3 Finger Sweep (2-3 sweeps)
□ “Hitting” the G-Spot
□ Come Hither
□ Tapping
D. Orgasm 3: Blended Orgasm
□ Lick-Rest Cycle
□ Secret Twitch to find “hot spot” with your tongue
□ Circles (keep stimulating clitoris with your tongue)
□ 3 Finger Sweep (2-3 sweeps)
□ Come Hither (keep stimulating clitoris with your tongue)
□ Tapping (keep stimulating clitoris with your tongue)
E. (Her turn to please you, and/or Sex)
